This initially started as a conversation between me and a homegirl, but what we were talking about was interesting so I decided to put it up as a blog. The first part that's italicized is the beginning aka her status on Facebook. Hope ya'll enjoy and leave comments if you please.

Kara:
Finding love is NOT being tied down it's SETTLING down. Finding love is settling down with THE ONE who TRUELY LOVES YOU && all the others SHOULDN'T matter anymore. Love is {SO} much better than having pointless little flings so once it's found why choose flings over love or have flings on the side? What's better than love? Anyone, please elaborate because I'm lost. ♥ :)

Flex:
That makes perfect sense bruh. There aint nothin 2 really elaborate on lol, it's ALL right there...

Kara:
Then WHY THE HECK do guys choose flings over love or have flings on the side??!!! They miss out on girls who actually GIVE A DAMN about them!

Flex:
Haha, Ummm...I Can't Speak For Every Nigga In The Galaxy, But I Think It's Like This. U Gotta Break This Shit Down Half And Half So Check Me: The Easiness Of A Fling Might B Wat Makes Us Like It..You Have The Option To Quit That Shit Without Having Your Heart Already Involved Into It. That's One Half. The Love Part (Which Supports Ur Status): To Have Someone To Share Ur Emotions With, ALWAYS..To Have Somebody That Will Love You And Actually Gives A Damn About U & Knowin' That Person Thinks About U...Just That Thought Alone Is Why A Nigga Would Say Somethin Like Your Status. So A Nigga Can Say Somethin' JUST Like Your Status But Completely Contradict Himself By Having A Fling Or Flings On The Side. Ok Im Done Lol

Kara:
Exactly and that's what's frustrating. In my opinion there's nothing cute or special about flings what so ever. AND ONE SHOULD BE SUPER QUICK to drop all the nonsense if love was found. It's NOT FAIR to have flings on the side && be disrespectful to that person you love who loves you. && it's sure as hell NOT OKAY to choose the flings over love...BECAUSE AT THE END OF THE DAY, THE HOES AREN'T GONNA LOVE YOU, THEIR NOT GOING TO CARE, THE GAME'S GONNA GET OLD, && YOUR GONNA REGRET NOT STICKIN WITH THE LOVE YOU HAD. Not sayin all guys do that just noticed a lot do. && i guess i just don't understand how a guy could find flings enjoyable if their love is right there like wtf why are you doin this when i love you.

Flex:
And I Understand You But Understand...It's Not The Fling That's Attractin' The Guy...It's The CONCEPT Of A Fling. Just Like It Aint Love That Attracts Someone, It's The CONCEPT. The IDEA. A Guy Is Gone Choose What He Chooses Depending On Where His Heart Is At And What Stage He's In As Far As Being A Man Goes. If He On Some Grown Man Shit, He'll Want Longevity And Commitment. If He On Some Childish Shit, He'll Want Something That's As Easy To Throw Away As It Was To Obtain. Plain And Simple.

Kara:
Interesting, love attracts me not just the concept but i guess guys view it differently && as for those who turn from love and go to the flings they have a lot of growing up to do.

Flex:
Agreed, But Question. U Don't Think Love By Itself Is A Concept? It's Not A Thing..It Aint Something U Can Hold Or Buy. U Can Only Show It Thru Actions & Think Of It, But Maybe That's Just My Thinking. Im Headed Off This Piece, But I Think We Should Continue This At A Later Time, Pimpn!

Holla Back,
Black Noize aka THE 615 King